pregnancy and parenthood

Motherhood cannot be mastered; love and respect can

I have been blogging about motherhood far less these days. I'm knee-deep in navigating toddlerhood as well as still adjusting to parenting two under three. Add to that another cross-country move in two weeks. You could say life has been busy. As I dust off the keyboard and gather my thoughts while sitting on a moving… Continue reading Motherhood cannot be mastered; love and respect can

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pregnancy and parenthood

Empathy, like wisdom, comes in time

I just read one of the most beautiful blogs I've seen in a while: "To my friends who had kids before me, I'm sorry I didn't know." It speaks such a raw and honest truth that most of us experience in the throes of childbirth and recovery, especially for those of us who are the first… Continue reading Empathy, like wisdom, comes in time

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Why I refuse to drive or dine with an iPad

We've done about five long road trips in the past two years that were seven hours plus, but our next big trip will top that to about 21 hours of driving. One of the most common pieces of advice we receive any time we share news of a long drive is to download apps and… Continue reading Why I refuse to drive or dine with an iPad

military life

Solo parenting in the military is underrated

I'm going to draw attention to something that most of us would never want attention to in the first place because 1) It's doing what we have to do just like anyone else in this world, and 2) Single parenting is generally, probably, harder and we hate to even imply that we're comparing.  So, full… Continue reading Solo parenting in the military is underrated

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When home is exactly the break that you need

My husband and I moved here with one dog, a baby bump and no support system, and are leaving here with two dogs, two kids under three, and a village of hand-selected family. We have not, however, had a babysitter for the popular “first night out kid-free” milestone yet. And this has been by choice… Continue reading When home is exactly the break that you need

pregnancy and parenthood

Why I don’t need Mother’s Day “off”

This will be my third Mother's Day since becoming a mom, and the conversations are bursting with enthusiasm on what we as new moms really want. It always goes something like this: hot coffee, sleep, solo showers, breakfast in bed, outings free of kids, clean house, and a night off cooking. I totally get it.… Continue reading Why I don’t need Mother’s Day “off”

pregnancy and parenthood

I love being a second-time mom more than I thought I would

For many of us, being a first-time mom is overwhelmed by worry. It's an adjustment second to none, and just when we think we've grown into our new role, our baby grows out of it. Which is why I absolutely love being a second-time mom. I'm experiencing motherhood from the start without all of the… Continue reading I love being a second-time mom more than I thought I would

pregnancy and parenthood

The biggest fears of two under two, conquered

I found new stressors to overthink when I became pregnant with my second. Two under two is challenging, hands down, but it has also turned the page to a beautiful chapter in my motherhood journey. If I could go back in time, here's how I would have answered my biggest questions. How will I manage… Continue reading The biggest fears of two under two, conquered

pregnancy and parenthood

Our children are listening even when the world isn’t

Before I had kids, I felt heard. I could call someone and fall deep into a two-way conversation, free of tiny shrieks, squeals and leg yanks. My days at work were spent in various meetings where contrasting ideas merged into one united goal. Dinner with the husband was spent focused on each other, and evenings… Continue reading Our children are listening even when the world isn’t